Why You are a Healer Part II

Greetings Sweet Friend,

 Yesterday I began sharing the tale that birthed Sexy Money. It was a powerful awakening moment that stopped me in my tracks. Read about it here 

A client said the words that would change my life:

 “I can’t believe someone so sexy works with money.”

 Everything I thought I’d been doing right - to be respectable, to be successful in my field - led me to this moment of truth.

 First, I realized I had gotten comfortable not just wearing Wall Street gray but actually BEING GRAY. I thought my job was to not draw too much attention to myself

As far as I was concerned, I needed to tuck away any sensual, playful, feminine bits to be taken seriously.

Sound familiar?

I had a startling and profound realization: I wasn’t just trying to be respectable and successful.

 I was trying to hide.

 And I saw how I’d gotten REALLY good at hiding over the years. Looking back, it was how I’d learned to protect myself from hurt while I was growing up.

 I’d been building my life and career on one painful and harmful assumption:

 I needed to be different from who I really was in order to be successful.

 Some people talk about lightbulb moments. This felt like a lightbulb tragedy. But one that would light the way to my own healing and liberation.

 So, I wrote a really long letter to the universe. (As you do when someone sees your big shining light and it scares the bejeezus out of you.) In a nutshell, I said,

 “Show me the way.”

 Slowly and quietly, I got answers. The first of which was that I needed to get PHYSICAL.

 So, I got the inspiration to book a shoot with a boudoir photographer. YOWSA!

 This was definitely NOT hiding. And definitely NOT the image of the financial business-woman I’d been planning.

 But it was my truth.

 On the way to the session, I got a big pile of cash to pay the photographer.

Which became props in the photo shoot that inspired me to REALLY take the lid off.

To BE the embodiment of my work.

 TO STOP HIDING.

 I must confess, I LOVED the comment that I was too sexy to work with money. It spoke to my soul. Someone saw something I wasn’t seeing – namely that my sexiness, my sensual essence was undeniable. She was a force. And she wouldn’t be hidden any longer. So I had to step it up.

 The more I owned my sacred sex magic, and the more hungry I allowed myself to be in my desires and my sensual passion – the more successful I became.

In fact, once I started owning the relationship between my sacred sensuality and my money, I had my first $8500 month.

As I began working with clients, integrating the spiritual, the sensual and the financial, something became so clear to me.

Women are hungry for their sensuality as much as for their prosperity.

 Most of us are recovering from some type of sexual trauma – whether it’s direct or indirect, personal or cultural. We’re shamed. We’re insecure.

 We hide.

 The result?

 We shut down our VOICES. Which keeps us INVISIBLE. Which limits our sexual and financial POWER.

 We’re not taught that we can make a connection between sex and money in an EMPOWERED, CREATIVE way.

 Well, until now.

 Sexy Money CELEBRATES your relationship with your money as a JOYFUL manifestation of your DIVINE SENSUAL SELF.

 The fabulous FREEDOM you feel putting an extra $1,000 per month into your bank account is the same freedom of feeling at home in your own delicious skin.

 Mmmmmm. Yum.

 Sexy Money means feeling good, whether you are spending or saving. Because when you are 100% CLEAR on YOUR WORTH and what YOU VALUE, your money reflects that.

 Whether it’s clothes that make you feel badass, a healthy IRA account, a home with a backyard, starting your own business, investing in a day-care center in your old neighborhood so families can thrive… When you get yours, you can CHOOSE and CREATE in ways that align with your PASSION.

 My healing journey has led me to create tools to help YOU find sacred sensual healing and… to BECOME WEALTHY.

And being healed then makes YOU a healer.

Because when one woman heals, she can’t help but bring the women around her HIGHER.

 Abundance flows from your TURN-ON.

 I realize that may sound nuts.

 But so is keeping your light under gray flannel and thinking that’s the road to success and prosperity.

 At your juicy and ecstatic service,

 xoxo

Denise

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