It's no secret among my friends that I am obsessed with sex work
I still daydream about dancing at a strip club (might be the reason for my raging addiction to pole dancing classes)
I long to be a dominatrix
I fantasize about being a feminist porn director (do those exist?)
Or even better
Have myself a good old fashioned
In my mind my sugar daddy looks more like Richard Gere and a lot less like Donald Sterling
It's my go to fantasy when times get tough
A Man will come along and rescue me.
My Prince Charming (at least I pray he's charming)
My knight in shining platinum armor
I came close to making this fantasy a reality
I dated this guy who paid for everything
sent me expensive flowers
bought expensive trips to St. Martin
I just KNEW I had landed the jackpot
On top of all those things the sex was great
He was funny, intelligent, and seemed completely smitten with me.
Then suddenly Prince Charming's veneer started wearing around the edges
And he started showing signs of all natural, grade A, American narcissism.
As my love affair crumpled around me
The thing I found hardest to say goodbye to
was not the love I thought I had I found or the future babies I day-dreamed about
The thing I missed most was:
The security of being able to leave home without my wallet
AND be fully taken cared of
I had to say goodbye to winters in Egypt and
days spent indulging in beauty treatments and going to spas
days spent shopping and eating luxury lunches
I also had to say goodbye to my helplessness
I had to acknowledge that I could make my OWN money
The month that I broke up with my prince I had my worst business month ever
But I also realized the price of being a kept woman was way too high
A kept woman has to listen to the racist rants of her boyfriend
A kept woman has to end arguments sooner than she would like because she needs money for
her credit card bill
A kept woman is never really respected as we live in culture that values money above all else and the people who make the money rule
Don't get me wrong I'm all for asking AND getting what you want from your lovers
But I know this,
a man is not a financial plan.
a man is not a financial plan.
Can you get someone to pay your rent because you are
beautiful, charming, light-filed, and magnetic
Of course you can, any woman has that powerful gift of attraction
attraction that is above and beyond physical beauty
the most famous courtesans through out history knew that power of a woman
but is that power to attract wealthy suitors the only thing you should rely on?
That man you charmed
He could leave
He could die
His wife could put her foot down
He could be cruel
His children could contest the will
You could want to leave him (but won't because who will pay the note on your Audi?)
He could decide to trade you in for a newer model
Once I realized that my kept status would never be guaranteed in the hands of another
I decided to keep myself
The next year I doubled my income
my business and my "Rich Bitch" status took off
More importantly I get to spend my days sharing my unique gifts with the WORLD not just a handful of men seeking release in the arms of someone new.
I get to share my love of money
I LOVE money
crazy in LOVE
and my money loves me.
I've taken that love affair with my money and built a business educating women on harnessing their sensuality, their beauty, their charm, and their femininity
to make what they deserve
Turns out I am a kept women.
I am my own keeper.
Are you ready to keep yourself?
I'm doing a free webinar Girl, Get Your Money Right where I will show you the Sexy Money way to create wealth so you can enjoy those wealthy suitors as icing on your cake and not the keepers to your gilded cage.
Space is limited to 250 woman.