This is why I'm hot: 5 women who take sexy to the next level!

I get asked quite a bit,

What the heck does sexy have to do with money?

The truth is 'sexy and money' are intricately tied. When your sexy is out of whack you feel:

Attacked on all fronts by the guilt monster, finding yourself wrong for all your actions.

The classic case of damned if you do.......  If you are working, you worry about neglecting your other relationships. You feel guilty about things like over-eating, not working out, and neglecting your children and family. When you aren't working you feel guilty because you aren't focused on your to-do list. You are one purchase away from a downward spiral of shame and self-abuse.

A paper thin veneer of self-worth and esteem, – Your boundaries are out of whack and everyone gets a piece of you which often results in seeing yourself as a self-sacrificing martyr, often putting others’ wants and demands before your own needs, all the while harboring silent resentment towards them and self-criticism towards yourself. You will tend to overspend on others and lack the ability to say no or to spend on yourself

Easily offended, hurt or upset by the words and actions of people that you perceive as not appreciating you.  You get defensive and tend to condemn others who behave differently than you think they should.

You are flawed and are always under construction.  You don’t trust that you can be loved just for being who you already are. Instead you believe that you have to continually improve yourself to become worthy of being loved, by others and by yourself. You buy and consume to fill a never ending hole and your bank account bears the brunt of this ongoing construction project.

What is Sexy Money?

Sexy Money is a philosophy that a woman in touch with her sensuality and turn-on is a powerful master of her domain INCLUDING her finances. 

When I feel unworthy, guilty, or less than spectacular

 the quickest way for me to feel better is for me to step into my sexy.

Today I want to introduce you to Sexy.

There is that old adage that no man is an island. Well I am here to tell you no woman is an oasis of sexiness all by herself.

 I've compiled a list of an amazing group of women who can take your sexy into the stratosphere. 

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The Queen of Seduction Kitty Cavalier. Kitty is the maestra of the art of the tease. I've had the pleasure of taking her classes and left each time feeling sexy, sensual, and powerful. Normally Kitty's services are only available in the New York area but now the whole world can be seduced by her charm and cheek. Kitty is offering a 4 week online program called"Your Seductress Unveiled"check out the detailshere.

Body bySacred Brooklyn. Enough said. I have never had more fun and felt more embodied and challenged than when I am taking class at Sacred. They have one of THE best pole dancing programs in NY. They are also launching their first ever Yoga Teacher Training program this fall. I will be a student of this session dubbed "The Courage Cycle". If you want a full bodied love affair with, well--YOUR body. Sacred is the place for you.

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Lauren Harkness of Lauren Harkness Designs. This woman’s designs drip from my neck, wrists, fingers, and ears.Ok in all transparency she is one of my best friends. We've known each other since college. Even if she is my best friend I can’t deny the allure of all her jewelry. I save up for her stuff every year. Her jewelry is usually the only stuff I wear. I still remember the days she did purses and yoga mats (apparently she is designing a new line of leather purses for release in the next few years, I can’t wait!) Until then, find her gorgeous jewelry creations here on My favorite,the sunset necklace.

My personal glam sqaud.The Ladies of Glamour Bitch Photography. Take a look at the photos around this site. They speak for themselves. Dawn and her team made me feel so comfortable during my photo shoot. Plus you get your hair and makeup done at her adorable studio.

How's that for feeling like a sexy superstar?

I've been OBSSESSED with these ladies since I moved to New York. I remember the first time I saw them at the Bowery Poetry Club. I was frozen, my attention rapt, I wanted to BE them, I was them. Finally brown girls (who weren't the parade of half-naked actresses and singers we are inundated with every day) telling their stories while being coy, authentic sex symbols, flirtatious, and deeply sensual. I had to work with them. Fast forward three years later and I graduated from my first Brown Girls Burlesque Broad Squad Institute. Check the ladies outhere.

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